Surrogacy is illegal - in the law. But in the anonymity of the internet the black market flourishes. Here Hildegard and Anton met Sarah. The conceiving of their child happened on a toilet with the help of an enema syringe. They told nobody of it, not even their parents, the child should be born secretly. Another case are Diana und Steffen, who found a surrogate mother in South Africa. Here surrogacy is legal and the fertilisation is done in a hospital. Diana and Steffen already told everything to their family, neighbours and collegues. The are assured that the german youth welfare office can't do anything against the adoption of the baby according to the south african law.